Do You See The Signs?


In many of my readings, Spirit will mention that they’ve been sending lots of signs, but they are being ignored. I’ll ask my clients if they’ve been receiving any signs from Spirit, and most of the time the answer is “No.”

I usually ask them if they are SURE that they haven’t seen any signs, and then start rattling off all the ways that Spirit tries to get our attention: Any wildlife experiences?! See a dragonfly lately? Are you waking up at the same time at night? Do you hear the same song over and over again? Has any electronics have been acting weird? Receive a feather lately? Are you finding dimes? Have you had any weird dreams? Do you see the same numbers everywhere? What about weird smells?

Once I go down my list, more often then not, it will trigger an “ah-ha moment” within my client, their eyes light up, or the excitement in their voice rises! “Yes! But I didn’t know THAT was a sign!”. Oh my, le sigh. That’s the problem, we receive signs from Spirit and the Universe ALL THE TIME but people don’t realize that THAT’S A SIGN!!

When my clients finally realize that the deer they saw the other night, the eagle they saw fly over head, the dragonfly that sat on their chair, the clock displaying 3:33 on the clock when they wake up at night, the SAME song playing on the radio every time they turn it on, their child’s toy going off in the middle of the night even though they are turned off (and in one case, had the batteries removed), finding a feather perfectly placed on their path – or even better, when they float down from the sky right in front of their eyes, finding shiny dimes in weird places, having profound, intense dreams – even dreams of deceased loved ones, and smelling scents and fragrances that trigger memories of a particular person (is that stinky cigar you Gramps?!), THESE ARE ALL SIGNS!!! This is how Spirit can communicate with us and get our attention. Most times people just pass it off like it didn’t happen or it wasn’t significant enough to talk about, but the truth is, the messages and signs they send are HUGE!!

Often times, when I’m struggling in life and desperate for help, I will call out to the Universe and ask for a sign. Talking to Spirit or the Universe isn’t complicated. You can talk to them in your head like you do when you are pretending to win arguments with people when you’re in the shower (we all do it). Just call out to your tribe, “Hey Guys?! I could really use some help down here… Any chance you could send me a sign?!”


So you’ve asked for a sign, now you have to wait and PAY ATTENTION!! And for Christ sakes, if they send you a sign, and you actually receive it, please don’t ignore it if it wasn’t the sign you wanted. So many of us only want to hear the answer to something if it’s the answer we WANT to hear. It’s very easy to dismiss a sign because it wasn’t what we wanted.

I often laugh when clients who see a sign they asked for, but aren’t sure if that was actually a sign, so they ask for another one. Each time, not knowing whether they were “getting it” or not.

If you don’t regularly see feathers fall out of the sky, but you happen to see one falling, chances are, THAT’S A SIGN!

If you go to work the exact same way every day, then all of a sudden you get the urge to re-route at the last minute, only to find out later that there was an accident on the normal route you take, at the same time you should have been driving by, THAT’S A SIGN!

If you are feeling alone in the world, hopeless and depressed and you escape to a public bathroom to cry in a stall, and you look down and see a shiny dime staring you in the face, THAT’S A SIGN!!

If you are trying SO HARD to force something to work, and it’s just not working out, regardless of how many different ways you’ve tried to make it work, and it STILL won’t work, THAT’S A SIGN!!!

We tend to over complicate things and have higher expectations for the way our sign is delivered to us than we should. I think most of us expect the sign to be soooooo clear cut, and in your face, that there’s no way of missing it, and it’s just not like that. You’re not going to be sitting in traffic wondering if you should quit your shitty job and ask for a sign and see a panhandler stand up with a sign that reads: “Yes Sharon, you should quit your shitty job… This is your sign.”

You shouldn’t be on your daily jog asking the Universe to send you a sign about whether or not you should leave your abusive husband, and expect to trip over an duck with a note in its mouth saying: “Yes Karen, ditch that abusive a**hole husband of yours!” It doesn’t work like that!

The first thing you need to be doing, is posing the question to yourself first. Quiet your mind long enough to hear your Soul’s answer and guidance. How does each answer FEEL inside of you? Be your own compass first! Then, when you have a thought in your mind, a decision you’d like to make, ask for VALIDATION by receiving sign.

As many of you know, I have been experiencing a pretty intense life shakedown. I am back at the bottom having to rebuild every aspect of my life, and it’s been super overwhelming. Although it’s a huge opportunity for growth, suffering and  hardships are never easy or fun, even when you understand that it’s all happening as part of a bigger plan.

I had finally made a decision on what path I should take, and although it felt good to my Soul, I still needed validation that I was on the right track. I was sitting out on the deck, listening to the wind rustle through the trees, the birds chirping, and the traffic go by off in the distance. I had a moment where I couldn’t even breathe anymore without busting into tears. Knowing the ugly cry wasn’t far off if I let the flood gates open, I need to distract myself.

Normally, I’m all about expressing my feelings and honouring the energy that needs to be let out, but on this day, I knew that crying wasn’t going to help anything. It was only going to bring me down and I didn’t have the energy to pick myself back up. So in an effort to distract myself, I quickly got up and headed out into the yard to retrieve a soccer ball at the far end of the property.

My dogs are my happiness and motivation to be better and keep on fighting my way forward in life, so I usually like to involve them as my distraction. What better way to avoid your feelings than playing soccer with your dog, right?! As I made the journey towards the soccer ball, I seen something shiny sitting a foot or so, in front of it. It had beautiful colors to it as the sun hit it. As I got closer, there sat the most perfectly positioned sign a brokenhearted girl could ask for… a feather from the Universe.

When you ask for signs, you have to recognize the signs, and you have to be grateful for the signs regardless of whether or not you understand them, or want to hear them. As soon as you see a sign, THANK THE UNIVERSE! Even if you don’t understand the meaning of it, THANK THE UNIVERSE FOR IT!

We ask for, and receive signs every day, but if you don’t know how to recognize them, you may feel that your requests aren’t being answered. If you see the signs, but don’t understand them, ask!! If ever your Soul can’t provide you with the answers, Google can’t interpret the signs, or your friends and family you’ve asked just don’t seem to have answers, you can always reach out to me and we can explore your requests to the Universe, the signs that you’ve received, their meanings, and what to do with them.

I am always available to tap into your energy and speak directly to your energy tribe to see what guidance they have to offer. You can do so by booking a session online.

Just remember – and be aware – of the fact that the Universe speaks to us all the time, you just need to understand their language. The more you ask, the more you will receive. The more you acknowledge and appreciate, the stronger the signs will be!

Ace of Base wasn’t messing around! They asked for a sign, they got it, and then they shared it with the world!




I, I got a new life, you would hardly recognize me, I’m so glad
How can a person like me care for you?
I, why do I bother, when you’re not the one for me?
Is enough enough?
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign
Life is demanding without understanding
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign
No one’s gonna drag you up to get into the light where you belong
But where do you belong?
I, under the pale moon, for so many years I wondered who you are
How could a person like you bring me joy?
Under the pale moon, where I see a lot of stars
Is enough enough?
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign
Life is demanding without understanding
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign
No one’s gonna drag you up to get into the light where you belong
But where do you belong?
Oh, oh-oh-oh
I saw the sign and it opened up my mind
And I am happy now living without you
I’ve left you Oh, oh-oh-oh
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign
No one’s gonna drag you up to get into the light where you belong
I saw the sign
(I saw the sign, I saw the si-ee-i-ee-ign)
(I saw the sign, I saw the sign)
I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes, I saw the sign

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